The Biggest Mistake People Make With Reactive Dogs

If your dog kicks off every time it sees another dog — barking, lunging, losing its mind — I can almost guarantee you're making this one mistake.

You're throwing them into the fire.

I see it all the time. Owner wants to fix the reactivity, so they take the dog to the busiest park they can find, walk straight past every dog in sight, and hope for the best. The dog predictably goes mental. The owner gets embarrassed. They go home stressed. And the dog has just spent another hour practising the very behaviour you're trying to stop.

Here's what you need to understand.

Every single time your dog rehearses that reactive behaviour — every bark, every lunge, every meltdown — it gets more and more hardwired. You're not exposing them to their fear and helping them get over it. You're just making it worse.

Reactivity is not fixed by repetition of the bad stuff. It's fixed by setting your dog up to succeed.

That means starting at a distance where your dog can see the trigger but stay calm. Way further away than you think you need to be. At that distance, your dog can actually think. They can actually learn. And that's where the progress happens.

You build from there. Slowly. Patiently. Closing the gap only when your dog is genuinely ready, not when you think they should be.

It takes longer than chucking them in the deep end. But it actually works.

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